So many lives have passed before us & newborn lives
are born every day; yet, we all have something in common, that is our own
DNA.
No one else has your DNA
except you. Therefore, your DNA is
a gift to the universe, no one else from the past, present, or future will have
the same one. So, it seems to make
common sense to bring out your uniqueness & authentic you since there will
never be anyone exactly like you.
However, I like many of us might find it difficult to accept ourselves
to be authentic. For me, I grew up
with a family of 11 siblings & was smack between my 6 brothers. For such a long time, I wanted to be
more like them & not myself.
As I have learned a few critical lessons in life. One lesson is to accept &
appreciate the one you are with 24-7-that’s you!
We are with thy-self 24-7 from
birth to death, why not to be the authentic you? So, how can you become more authentic, I want to offer you
few insight tips to bring out your greatest present in life-the authentic you!
Being Authentic
When someone asks me how to be authentic, it’s kind of
like telling them not to do anything they don’t want to do. Do the things they really want to do
& be honest in their communication.
However, sometimes a message like that isn’t enough to get the point
across.
I. Accept who & where you are
Who’s Who, we need to identify ourselves
from the inside out & not from the outside in.
As soon as we accept who we are, what
stage we are in life, what we truly know or feel it to be, then all that
staging stops. As Popeye, the
cartoon character said many time over, I am what I am & that’s all that I
am.
If you are constantly looking to better
yourself through things that society makes us believe will improve our status,
then we will constantly be looking to get the approval of others. As soon as you are happy with yourself,
you have no reason to act in ways that seek approval.
II.
Express yourself & not someone else
If you like something, then express that.
If you want to do something, then do it
not to impress
others or fit-in make it an expression of who are.
Some may like & others may not, be
true to you!
III. Be human
At the end of the day, being authentic is
simply about being your-self, & being yourself is being human. It is in our nature to be honest,
expressive & caring. It is in our
nature to have likes & dislikes & be confident enough to share what
they are.
It is also in our nature to stand up for
ourselves & what we believe in, because ultimately, our beliefs are
completely unique in the universe.
If you want success in any areas of your
life, people have to be able to connect with you on all levels-personally &
professionally.
Once we accept who
we are at our core, it’s only natural for us to have all the qualities of
somebody who is authentic.
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